Coincidence: Meeting Mrs. Makombe (a special woman) in Lusaka, Zambia’s capital. Her story: – “Ten years ago, recently widowed, I took in an orphan to care for. As Aids creates more and more orphans more and more came in. Now after 10 years, 11 children live with me. I live in Kawambwa, 1.000 km up north from here (Lusaka). I’m getting too old and too poor for this heavy task. Several times I’ve asked the Sisters in Kawambwa to take over the children, but their answers stay: ‘No, we don’t have the money either’. What’s going to happen to the children if I’m not here anymore?“ My (impossible) answer: “If we’re ever in the neighborhood of Kawambwa, we’ll visit you.” Mrs. Makombe was a special lady, but who’s going to travel 1.000 km to visit a stranger?!
But indeed, 3 years later, spring ’05, we happened to be planning a camping-tour through the north of Zambia. “We could visit Kawambwa as well…”, arose a thought. “Would that special lady still be alive?” Phone numbers, we swapped in ’02, didn’t work anymore. Google’s miracle: we found an email address of a blind-school in Kawambwa. Our question: ‘Might it be possible that you know a lady called Mrs. Makombe having a small orphanage? If so, could we visit her?’ REPLY (!): “ Mrs. Makombe lives 500 meter from here. We know her very well. She and the children are looking forward to your visit.”, was signed, Sr. Maria.
And 6 months later, escorted by Sr. Maria (!) and Sr. Beatrice, we walked direction “Welcome to Kacema Musuma” (Good Shepherd).
Mrs. Makombe danced of joy! We could see that the last 3,5 years had been very tough for her.
The holes in the thatched roofs showed the blue sky (just before rainy season). The eleven rather shy children or piece of plastic on the dirtfloor to sleep on. Too few blankets. Drinking water had to be fetched every day and muddy water for the laundry came from a water pit at home. Jennifer (mother of daughter Joyce) had to do all the work (7 days a week). Her ‘salary’ was a place to sleep and getting some food for her and her daughter. She was like a mother for all the children. Some of the children were allowed to come to school (for free).
In short: we could understand why Mrs. Makombe had asked us for help in 2002 .
Shortly after our beautiful trip through the north of Zambia and the very impressive visit at Mrs. Makombe in Kawambwa, someone told me that Windesheim College had a “kind of relation” with Zambia. Curiously I called Windesheim and asked what was the meaning of this “kind of relation” and professor Peter Lindhoud answered: “ At this moment five students (construction department) are designing, drawing and collecting money for the construction of a kitchen and two diningrooms for a blind school in KAWAMBWA…”
“IMPOSSIBLE, IMPOSSIBLE! I’ve just come home from there! A small town in the middle of nowhere!” and suddenly myself say: “Could you also do something for a small orphanage?”. Peter Lindhoud’s answer I’ll nèver forget: “Nothing is impossible with us!”
These words made me call the Sisters in Zambia: “Imagine we could start a foundation in The Netherlands for collecting money for running costs first (without money for running costs, construction wouldn’t make any sense) and secondly money for a construction, would you be able and willing to take over Mrs. Makombe’s children and run an orphanage?”
The answer: “This would be a dream of years coming true!”
Coincidence:
One year later our Dutch Rabobank would buy 49% of the Zambian Zanacobank! Sometimes all these coincidenses gave us the feeling: “Is this still normal????”
Coincidence??: Sr. Maria (yes, the Sr. Maria of the very first email!) was appointed to be Sister in Charge.
It was in time:
Half a year later Mrs. Makombe moved to Lusaka to live with her daughter who looked after her till she died in Lusaka in August 2011. Sr. Maria and two of the children who had lived with Mrs. Makombe travelled 1.000 km to be present at Mrs. Makombe’s funeral.
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Conny Snoep – Secretary KACEMA MUSUMA Foundation Netherlands.